THE BRUTAL, VICIOUS, VIOLENT TYRANT
Part of our Tyrants blog series where you will learn the many faces of the tyrants. You will learn about the other tyrants of life like time, situations, space and the environment. You will also learn about the people called “Two-Legged Tyrants” and what their focus is for tyranting you. You will clearly see how you opened the door and let the tyrant in. Best of all, this series teaches you how to stop any tyrant from stealing your life force energy and how to count coup and gain the true teaching for both you and the tyrant.
STORY
I walked up the front driveway to my home. My clothes were torn, my nose was bleeding and I felt like I had been through a war, but I could now hold my head up high. I was free.
While walking home from school one afternoon as I rounded a corner near the alley, a big boy who had dropped out of school stepped in front of me causing me to run into him. He said to me “Hey coke bottle eyes, you better watch where you’re going”. Next he took hold of my collar and slammed me up against the wall then he threw me on the ground. As he stepped on my wrist with his motorcycle boots, he said “You’re a loser and you need someone like me to take care of you.” He then told me to meet him at the park the next day at 3:00 pm and not to tell anyone what had happened.
On the rest of the walk home my head was spinning. I felt humiliated and thought to myself perhaps this bully was right, I have always felt like a loser. But I was very afraid of him. I thought about telling someone what had happened, but I was ashamed and remembered the warning the bully had made. My dad was a real man’s man and I didn’t think he would be very sympathetic to my problem. He often criticized my physique and passive qualities. No, I must keep this to myself and make the best of it. Besides maybe the bully would get interested in terrorizing someone else.
I met the bully at the park the next day and he beat me up that day and every day that I wouldn’t do exactly what he told me to do. This brutality and intimidation went on for months. Then one day I was walking by a gym and saw an advertisement that read: Tired of being a wimp? Sign up for boxing lessons today! Immediately I thought this would be a solution to my problem. Somehow I had to get control of my physical space. This might be just what I needed! So I enrolled in the program.
After some months passed I finally decided it was time to confront this bully and stop him from tyranting me once and for all. As he approached me in his usual manner, I immediately took a strong stance and looked him directly in the eye. I kept telling myself over and over again, “I deserve to be free.” He immediately noticed the change in me and I could see a nervous gesture in his hands. For the first time I could see in his eyes that he was unsure of himself.
I’m not going to go into the details of the fight, but I will say that this is one bully who will never bother me again. Nor will any other for I have learned to deal with people who are vicious and brutal; I have learned to own my own space.
TEACHING
Description
This tyrant is not one you want to purposely confront unless you are trained. They are physically brutal, vicious and violent. They use the earth sword (their physical body) to go through your physical body to break your spirit and possess the soul. They demand complete control over your world.
Underlying Cause
What gives the brutal, vicious, violent tyrant meaning in life is being violent. A brutal tyrant is insecure and closed to their deeper emotions and doubt they can get what they want without physical violence. This tyrant is afraid of being beaten or put down. Often these tyrants are victims of a brutal tyrant within their family and carry a myth of this nature.
Unconscious Motivation
This tyrant has a negative self-concept and very low self-acceptance. Issues about being loved begin to spill over and color their attitude and approach toward life. This attitude says “I am going to get it any way I can.” The major way they get what they want is by making others afraid of them. This tyrant also focuses on your negative self-concept and your attitude and approach toward life that says “I’m a loser and a victim, poor me!” This tyrant doesn’t look for fights, they look for victims.
Impact of the tyrant
This tyrant has no boundaries or limits when it comes to what they want and how they are going to get it from you. They will use threats, cruelty, violence or any means at their disposal. They have their own set of rules and laws, morals and ethics that they play by. They want to wear you down physically and if they can succeed. in brutalizing you, they impact your physical reality. What they are trying to communicate to you is that they not only physically own you and your space, but they want to gain absolute victory over your spiritual self-growth, maturity and even your soul.
If you are afraid or repelled by physical violence, you will do nothing to counteract the brutality. As a result, you stay in denial and the brutal, violent, vicious tyrant controls you.
Join us on the next blog as we take a closer look at this tyrant. See what you need to do to count coup on this tyrant and be at cause in your circle.
Excerpted from “A Course of Study, Series B: Module 2: The Tyrants of Life″, written by Mary Flaming Crystal Mirror.
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